by Bodey Watson
Some have asked, “Why is it wrong to have sex with someone that you are in a committed relationship with?” Define committed. I looked it up. Webster says, “Give in trust, to pledge, to bind.”
Sounds like marriage to me. Or at least the way it was intended to be. You know, for better, for worse for richer for poorer, all that good stuff. I went to a wedding a while back where they changed the vows to better suit the way some look at marriage now. They said "For as long as we both shall love." The elderly lady sitting next to me said, "Well how long is that? Next Tuesday ?" She made a very valid point. There are times when we don't necessarily have "love" (warm fuzzy) feelings for a spouse.
Everything you're feeling has been felt before.
News flash – sometimes they don't feel warm and fuzzy towards you. But when you have committed, pledged, promised, bound yourself in marriage you stick it out.
See, "feelings” are very fickle things. They can change with the weather. Or your hormones. You may think that your love is so special that the rules don't apply to you like they do to the rest of us mere mortals. But truly, there is nothing new under the sun. Everything you're feeling has been felt before.
That's why, not that long ago, a daddy would be perfectly justified in forcing a marriage or dismembering any one who "dishonored " his daughter. She was to be protected from such a disaster at all costs. Now he is forced to sit and have Christmas dinner with the guy his baby is shacking up with and be "open minded" about it.
Girls, all that sexual equality crap the feminists fought for back in the '60s? It was a horrible trap that left so many being raised without their daddy, so many woman struggling to be single parents, countless millions to deal with abortion issues, and left a horrible drain on society as government tried to fill the daddy gap.
Did you know that the human papilloma virus, the one they want to inoculate our pubescent daughters with, is a sexually transmitted disease?
Did you know that after my entire adult life of getting pap smears every year a new doctor said that they were not needed because I was in a monogamous relationship. No doctor had ever taken that into consideration or bothered to inform me. I was always told the pap smears were to screen for cervical cancer. It became standard procedure because sexual promiscuity is prevalent and it was easier that way.
Ugh, what a mess we have made with all this humping like bunny rabbits. And this is just the tip of that proverbial iceberg. Why take a chance for mediocre sex with a guy who might not be around next year? You may think your sex life is wonderful now, but after 30 years with my husband, guess what. It's better…way better.
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